Why can’t you also be happily in love with a man who adores you, cherishes you, and truly loves you?
I asked myself that very question many times in my single years and it often made me feel very sad.
For years, I believed I was cursed or something, that I was not able to have one relationship right.
I met guys who seemed interested in me and even had a crush on me but for some reason, they grew bored, distant, and eventually pulled away and left me.
Then I saw them getting with another girl who seemingly had nothing more special than me but somehow ended up getting everything I wish I had…love, devotion, and commitment from that guy.
I wasted time in a dead-end relationship with the wrong guys who because I thought that’s the best I could do and I eventually lost hope, and confidence in myself and any desire to date again and find true love.
These painful experiences brought me to ask myself why these girls were able to get what I was not…A Man’s love and commitment.
I literally became obsessed with figuring out what makes a man fall in love with a woman and commit to her and how are these deep feelings triggered, because it was too painful to watch all these other girls getting the Life that I so craved and Not Me.
How is it that a man can really be into you but eventually pull away and leave you for another girl who has nothing more special than you?
Not only it took me years of observation but also painful breakups to finally figure it out.
The answer to this question has nothing to do with physical attributes or intelligence or personality how smart or how amazing you are. You can be the most attractive girl, or the smartest or the funniest around, and still push away guys for no apparent reason.
because what makes a man want to be with you and stay there is how he feels around you.
And if you thought that feelings are a matter of luck and totally outside of your control…that is because you haven’t yet come across His secret obsession yet.
I understood that there are specific behaviors and attitudes that if a woman masters, she can make almost any guy do and give anything in this world for her.
Women who are very successful in their love lives are those who either discovered these triggers ( sometimes accidentally or through a series of trial and errors) or they learned them through programs like His secret obsession.
For my part, I learned these truths the hard way, after self-assessing a decade of failed relationships. I wish I came across his secret obsession before because that would have saved me the best years of my life ( my 20’s) and probably would have saved my marriage.
Anyway, the fact that I learned everything by myself is the reason why I am able to give you a very honest opinion of his secret obsession.
If you think men and relationships are complicated? His secret obsession will demystify it for you.
Nothing in men is complicated, although when I was told this the first time I was skeptical.
Men want very simple things, the only issue is that they are incapable of articulating it clearly and when they don’t get what they want, they will confuse the heck out of you.
To be fair, it is not only because of their incapability to say these things, but it is also because saying what they really want defies its very purpose.
Can you imagine a man feeling really admired if he asks you to “admire him”? You see it does not work that way, your admiration has to come from you without him telling you for it to be real in his eyes.
The thing is you don’t need your man to tell you what he wants from you and what he needs you to be because James Bauer teaches everything you need to know to be the woman of his dreams.
I want to be very clear on this: this is a life changing program for every woman struggling in her love life or wants to take her relationship to the next level.
Who is James Bauer?
James Bauer is a relationship and dating coach and is the author of His secret obsession. He is behind the unique concept of the “hero instinct” and has taught many women around the world how to tap into their intuition and use hard-wired drives in men to create beautiful and lasting relationships with them.
What Is the Book About?
His Secret Obsession is the most impressive and comprehensive relationship guide I have come across.
The program is divided into 2 parts and has a total of 17 chapters.
The first part is devoted to explaining how the hero instinct works and gives incredible insight into male psychology.
As I was reading through that section I could not stop thinking how spot on everything was.
The second part is devoted to the techniques that you can use in order to use this instinct and gain the affection, trust, devotion, and commitment of any man.
These powerful techniques will help you tap into men's subconscious minds to make them become literally obsessed with you.
I have touched on this topic of the subconscious desires of men in previous posts where I explained that men are looking for relationships that fulfill certain fantasies, and a very important one is the hero fantasy.
Men naturally gravitate around people who trigger their hero instinct, and that is how you can make your man fall deeply in love with you and never want to leave you. He won’t even know why he feels that way for you because it is all subconscious.
In fact, what repels a man from a relationship with a woman is the lack of his hero instinct is triggered. Again he won’t know why he is losing attraction but will feel the need to express his hero instinct somewhere else ( if you were still wondering why men cheat on women they love or why some men leave perfectly good relationships).
PS: This is not a manipulative guide, although it may sound like. It is all about understanding men better and knowing what they actually want from the relationship but are not able to articulate and serve it to them and create the most loving and longing of relationships.
Very often the failure of a very promising relationship is due to lack of understanding of one another (I could have saved some relationships if I knew this before), and the very nature of a man’s need to be a hero won’t allow him to tell you that this is what he craves most.
Table of content
Part I: How The Hero Instinct Works
- The Secret Longing of Every Man
- The Unspoken Desire He’ll Never Admit
- Make Him See The Light
- The Fascination Trigger
- Why Men Say, “I’m just not ready”
- How Your Desires Can Fascinate Him
- The Secret Currency of Happy Relationship
- Rocket Fuel: How to Build Relationship Momentum Fast
- How To become His Secret Obsession
- Get Deeper Intimacy by Revealing More
- Three Things That Can Go Wrong (and how to fix them)
Don’t Miss: The best texting techniques to send a guy in the early days of dating
Part II: How to Use the Signals
- “The Private Island” Signal
- The “X-ray Question”
- The Glimpse Phrase
- The Secret “Currency” Of Happy Relationships
- The “I Owe You” Signal
- The “Damsel in Distress” Signal
What Are the 12 Phrases contained in the PDF?
James Bauer created what he calls “the signals” these are 12 phrases designed to be used in 12 different situations and will trigger a different reactions in your man that will result in him fall deeper in love with you
- The Glimpse Phase.
- The Fascination Signal
- Silent Action Signals
- The “I Owe You” Signal
- Damsel In distress Signal
- The Private Island Signal
- “The X-ray Question”
- The His Secret Obsession Ex Back Signal
- The Secret Currency of Happy Relationships
Learn more about His Secret Obsession
Who is the book intended for?
His secret obsession is intended for all women really, but in particular:
- You are in a relationship and feel that he is losing interest in you, or that he is not as committed as you want him to be
- You are not moving forward with your relationship (he likes being with you but is unsure about your future)
- You failed in your previous relationships and you have no clue as to why you failed
- If your husband has become distant and you feel your marriage is at risk
- You want your ex back
- You are dating a man but you are not able to get him to commit to a relationship with you
- You want to get a man interested in you
- You want to get back in the dating game the right way following a divorce or a separation
How Much Does His Secret Obsession Cost?
His secret obsession is fairly priced for the value it provides.
It is cheaper than a single coaching session amount to $197. If you are ready to order His Secret Obsession, it will be available for $47 only. You will be able to save $150 with this pack and enjoy the audio track, 60 days money-back guarantee, and results.
In conclusion
His secret obsession is a very impressive relationship guide with incredible insight into a man’s mind and practical techniques with supporting illustration audio and videos content that will give you all you need to become your man’s focus and passion in life.
It has helped many women before they get the love and the relationship they want.
The great thing about the His Secret Obsession program is that it comes with a complete 60-day money-back guarantee. You should really give not hesitate to give it a try and see if it makes sense to you and work for you. If not, you can just ask for your money back so you really should not be worried to give it a try.
It is time for you to understand men once and for all.
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