Here’s Why am I still not over him?
1. YOU NEVER LET YOURSELF BE UPSET ABOUT THE BREAKUP.
Breakups are never easy, and a lot of people just throw themselves into work or school to distract themselves from their heartbreak. That really just puts a band-aid on the problem, and you’ll still have to deal with your emotions later. It’s better to just face it head-on and put it behind you.
2. YOU’RE BITTER ABOUT HOW IT ENDED.
Maybe he cheated on you or dumped you out of nowhere, and you had no choice but to accept it. Your anger is holding you back from forgiving him and seeing that it’s probably for the best, so instead of moving on, you just obsess over it, which gets you nowhere.
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4. YOU’VE NEVER REALLY THOUGHT ABOUT YOUR OWN MISTAKES.
The end of a relationship is rarely one-sided. No one is perfect, but it can be hard to admit your own shortcomings, especially when it seems like he was the one who messed everything up. If you look back and try to understand some things from his point of view, maybe you’ll be able to learn something and avoid making the same mistakes again.
5. YOU MOVED ON TO A NEW GUY WAY TOO FAST
. A casual rebound is sometimes just what you need to start opening yourself up to what else is out there, but jump into a serious relationship too soon and you aren’t being fair to yourself or your new guy.
6. YOU’RE STILL CLOSE FRIENDS WITH HIM.
If you went straight from a serious relationship to best friends, how can you expect your brain to be able to separate your romantic feelings from your platonic feelings? Distance and space are needed in order to reset your feelings for him. Then maybe you can try being friends.
7. YOU’RE STILL HOPING FOR A RECONCILIATION.
By leaving the door open to possibly getting back together, you’re making sure you’ll never be able to fully move on. As long as you still have that tiny sliver of hope that you’ll get back together, you’ll never be able to commit to anyone new. Do yourself a favor and do what you need to do to shut that door completely.
8. YOU’RE STILL SLEEPING WITH HIM.
A lot of people think keeping an ex around as a potential hook-up is a great idea. You’re comfortable with each other, you know how to get each other off, and you won’t have to bother with Tinder for a last-minute booty call. But it’s pretty hard to put your feelings aside and really see it as just sex when only a few months ago you were telling this guy you loved him.
9. YOU STILL SLEEP IN HIS OLD T-SHIRT.
You’re wearing part of him when you go to bed, and every time you do, you’re reminded of how he used to cuddle with you until you fell asleep, how he smelled, and how he insisted you keep that shirt when you broke up because he knew it was your favorite. You have lots of other shirts, so wear one that isn’t so tied up in memories.
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